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I'll search the threads for similar cases after I post my situation. I've been with the same lady (30yrs old) for the past 8 years.

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My wife has been hearing this for several years now as my concern for society and the youth grows.

And yet, she decided to go to a bachelorette party 2 nights ago, when she knew a male stripper would be there and that I absolutely frowned upon these things.

The morning when she came back she tried "getting close" to me while I was sleeping, and she never does this unless she wants to make love.

I was exhausted and furious with her for going to that thing, when she had the opportunity to leave after dinner and a club, but instead she went back to the apartment where this guy shows up.

She has had the nerve to tell me that I didn't need to know the details of what happened with her there, and she has repeatedly lied about the entire experience which initially went from, "I didn't know there would be a stripper there until we left the club" to acknowledging that it was in the evite which she left up on our desktop.

She was clearly excited as it would be "real bachelorette action".

She initially lied and told me the stripper didn't do any thing to her.

But I got a confession out of her that she had put on a bikini top beforehand, which was clearly for skin contact.

And eventually she indicated that he had rubbed his genitals on her back (he had a thong on, big whoop). Again, she had the nerve to come home to me all stimulated and wake me up in the morning.

Obviously, after much teeth pulling I got more facts and I don't think that I've heard the last of it. I'm completely disgusted with her and I've told her that she has crossed a line which I don't know if our marriage will withstand.

She claimed that it was awkward, horrible, and disgusting, but I pointed out to her that if this was the case she could have left at any time. I'm planning on seeing how truthful and honest she is regarding the issue further, mainly to see if she is willing to attempt to rebuild my trust by telling me what happened (and if I'm further outraged by her acts I'll know if I even want to try to salvage this thing).