Over the past couple of days, we have been talking about date nights. We make a nice dinner, put our kids to bed early, and just spend time together.
Stacy shared with you why date nights shouldn’t end in marriage, and then, Anne shared a great idea for having a romantic date night-in! We talk, we read, we play dodge ball in the living room, we pull out a board game, we sword fight, and we hide toothbrushes when it’s time for bed ().
I hope you are seeing that date nights are an essential (and fun! As I surveyed women about their marriages, the one thing that was absolutely, without fail the most mentioned advice was keep the date nights! We love being married, and on Mondays, we intentionally spend time together without any other distractions!
To be transparent, Mark and I have always struggled with making date nights a priority. Served as community coordinators for an apartment complex. Maybe you’ll pick up a few tips, and share a few of yours in the comments?! Our entire marriage has been made up of one transition after another. We’ve moved four times in less than four years of marriage. We’ve started a couple small businesses (you’re reading one of them). We close down the computers, the phones, and maybe even the lights. The point is, in all of that craziness, date nights easily fall by the wayside. We’re not in a position where we can go “out,” but we can stay in (our home is our favorite place to be anyway), and make each other a priority.
We have instituted a weekly date night – Monday nights.
Light candles around the room and sip wine together.
Here are some other games we like to play together.
Right now, we’re playing lots of Sequence and Ratuki! We got so addicted to LOST last year, and this year we’re into 24. Turn your outdoor patio into a dining destination (complete with table cloth and candles).* 16. Play a little one-on-one in the driveway (basketball, I mean). Take skiing lessons in the living room (complete with goggles and mittens).
We kept a running tally of wins, and had a play-off on New Year’s Eve.
Play hop scotch in the driveway.* Other times, we just want to go out.