If you’re young (college or just out of college), girls do not have high expectations. Since girls do not have high expectations when you’re 18-22 years old, do not try to use money to get girls. They are more concerned with you being a cool and attractive person. If you are making ~0K out of college as an investment banker, you’re going to have a slight edge over your competition. When you start making ~0K+ at age 26-28 you are now in the top ~10% in major cities and life will get significantly easier. Even if you’re still trying to date younger girls they *expect* you to have some income.When you are young, girls care much less about how much money you make. Living at home in your parents basement is simply not going to cut it.
As you can see by the graph, you need to make *at least* the median income in order to consistently date girls in the 6-7 range. One day you will black out from partying too much and make a mistake. Girls in the 6 Range: A six is simply your type but other people wouldn’t be attracted to them.
If you are extremely good looking or have extremely high status (musician, DJ etc.) you can break these rules. Nothing else will help you if you’re below the median. If you like XYZ type look and she’s “okay” it usually means she’s a 6 to you and a 5 to someone else.
If you have incredible social skills but can’t even afford to live in a major city, the girl is going to ditch you. Girls in the 5 and Below Range: As mentioned in the graph… This shouldn’t matter to you, so simply proceed as normal.
Four ways to attract girls: 1) looks, 2) social skills – “game”, 3) relative status and 4) money. Instead of arguing about which one is “more important” we are going to focus on money in this post.
You should always work towards maximizing all of your four categories. We assume you are at the *median* in the other three categories (no competitive advantage when it comes to status, looks or game. 1) Overview of Why Money Matters 2) Quick Calculations For Your Relative Dating Market Value 3) If She Can’t Experience It, It Does Not Exist 4) Why Over 70% of People Are “Below Average” 5) “But I Know a Rich Guy Who Struggles” Since our readership is full of intelligent people… You can use money to improve your looks (clothes, healthier food).
You can use money to hire a social skills coach (extreme situation).You can use money to hire a personal trainer (fitness).You can use money to elevate your relative status (owning expensive assets).Please take a look at the graph below and you’ll understand why you should work hard in your 20s.The graph depicts her expectations of your income versus your age.As you get older and older, the amount of money you’re *expected* to have will continue to increase! You simply do the following: 1) get in incredible shape and join a sports team, 2) learn how to dress and 3) improve your social skills. the amount of money you’re making will help you *immensely*.