This is a site for guys of a similar mindset—that bigger is, most often, better.
Learn more about gaining and encouraging on the Gaining FAQ page. Don't miss out on the hottest topics and latest news: The newsfeed provides a summary of what people are writing on their walls and the comments others are making.
No matter your personality, Grommr has tools you can use to interact with the people you like most.
Some users will use the private chat and messaging.
Others will like the video chat room, or commenting on photos. You can follow members, post to their public wall, like their posts and photos (we call that a "Nom"), send them a private message, or just a flirt—a kind of predefined message—to break the ice.
On Grommr you will find advanced search tools to help you discover guys in your area, who share your interests, who fit your type and have the same kinks as you.
No matter what your criteria are, we’ve got a search for it: Age, location, weight, BMI, sexual kinks and preferences, type of body, languages spoken, relationship status, etc.
Don't wait any longer to find the gainer, chubby bear, feeder, bloater or encourager of your dreams. So of course we built our site with powerful location-based tools.On Grommr you can specify your location in your profile by entering a city name, zip/postal code, or even an address (don't worry, it will always remain private).The idea is that the system will translate your location to geographical coordinates to calculate your relative distance to other people.This way you can see who's close to you, sorted by distance. If you're busy chatting with others and can't respond to a new message right away, that's fine!In big cities like New York, Los Angeles, Chicago and London, you want to know who actually lives in your area, not just somewhere in the same vast city. The chat message is kept in your inbox and you decide when to answer it.Unless you specifically delete them, conversations are saved so you can always refer to them later.