Is this because most people picture their future from an early age and mixing it up doesn’t quite sit right?I’m so sick of the “you’re really attractive, why are you single” comments because I don’t KNOW why I’m single.
It’s not uncommon to see this type of couple – however, flip the coin and you’re in a different realm.The only men I attract are the ones I don’t fancy or have a different agenda to me!So I realise that in this ever decreasing dating pool, my numbers are even smaller than most women as I don’t and won’t date within my race. So what to do – am I living in a dream world and need to maybe just get into my head that I’m meant to be single?I have a question that I don’t think you’ve been asked before!I’m a slim and attractive, successful black woman who only dates Caucasian men – but I can’t get one to commit! They all say, “I’ve never been out with a black women before” as if all my bits are going to be different to any other woman on this planet.
If I’m lucky, they’ll date me briefly, but it’s purely about the sex! I’m 36 and have slept with under 10.) I’m extremely fussy who I “put out” for.
I’m on two dating sites: e Harmony and Match Affinity – both USELESS.
I don’t find most men on them attractive and, of the ones that I do, they don’t like me! You must be a mind reader as yesterday I was thinking of closing both accounts!
So here’s my question: men clearly find me attractive, but how do I get a Caucasian man to commit?
My sister gets men to commit but you wanna see the state of them – I have higher standards!
I’ve spoken to my guy friends (all Caucasian) and their feedback is: it’s rare that they meet black women (let alone attractive ones) and while they’d date one, they would never settle down and have children!