by Jay Julio Women are extremely smart in the dating world. That's why you MUST know what these questions are — and the motivations behind them IF you not only want to succeed with women, but also not fall victim to their personal agendas. That's why they have these standard questions they ask men as soon as they get the chance.
They tend to have a set of dating questions they'll ask every man they begin seeing. These dating questions allow a woman to save time by getting the information about you she needs quickly... for the purpose of these questions is to figure out whether you can give a woman the benefits she's looking for — and which specific ones.
Though being aware of the specific dating questions can definitely help you identify what a woman's priorities may be, it isn't nearly as important as understanding the intentions beneath them.
Women have two personal reasons for getting together with men: the external benefits and the internal benefits they receive. Really, it's the feelings underneath the benefits that women are ultimately after.
Ignore this single fact, and the dating world will eat you up alive and spit you out broke or heart-broken. External benefits are things like material possessions or opportunities that save women time and effort, which give them feelings ranging from security to luxury.
While internal benefits are things like adventure and challenge, which give them feelings from excitement to pleasure.
And just like these two general motives, men also fall into one of two general categories: either providers or lovers.
What you'll discover is that providers offer external benefits, while lovers provide internal benefits. Now, here's the real secret to dealing with women, starting from the moment you get a woman asking you these questions...So the reason women ask you these dating questions, really, is to discover within moments whether you're a provider or a lover. You want a woman to be with you for WHO you are, right?That way, she knows how to frame you in her life... And the ONLY way to do that is to communicate that you're a lover.If there was a currency for 'love', providers would be very poor. Because women aren't with them for who they are as a person. So if you answer a woman's dating questions directly, you're communicating that you're a provider from the beginning of a possible future relationship — which means a woman will conceal her true intentions from you in order to leverage you and get the benefits through you.They're mostly there because of the external benefits they receive. But if you refuse to answer these first date questions (in a special way I reveal here), because you now understand the intentions underneath them, you communicate you're a lover.Then women stay with you for the internal benefits you offer them, which not only means it's for who you are as a person — rather than for being a means to an end, like a provider — it's for the relationship itself.