Most German men appear to be timid and cold and won’t approach a female target unless they are in a group or tipsy.
If he dares to invite you for a coffee, it will be booked well in advance because the German gentleman is busy.
In the meantime, usually expect "no flirting and no spontaneous messages".
My method of seduction is always to show interest by joking and playing ambiguously.
In Germany, subtily showing your interest leads straight into the Berlin wall and showing your excitement is likely to make him disappear from the radar screens.
If you manage to courageously seduce a commitment phobe, he would probably prefer to die than admiting his feelings. It seems that the word "beziehung" (translation: relationship) should never be said out loud because it involves taking high risks and adrenaline.
As in any relationship between two human beings love is beautiful but complicated.
Until I moved to Germany, I was convinced that love has a common language, no matter which language(s) you speak.
I have however been facing unusual misunderstandings and disappointments when flirting with German men, likely due to cultural differences.In terms of seduction, the rules are totally different here: the women flirt and men simper.My article is obviously very cliché, based only on my own experience.I hope the readers, my German friends and colleagues will not take this article too seriously and take no offence but have a good laugh whilst reading my “sociological analysis” about the difficulties of dating a German man and its consequences!Playing the game of seduction with a German man: Mission impossible?It seems to me that dating a German guy is a complicated and long process as is memorizing the word "Geschlechtsverkehr", which basically means "sex".