Question: I have always been attracted to smaller weaker men. It might be because they have to use intelligence and persnality to compensate for what is lacking. If you are a female who prefers smaller men what are the reasons? Finally, just knowing I can kick his butt if I wanted to does give me a rush :) Sharon Missy and Sharon, you are both very important trail-blazers in what is possibly one of the most vital developments in history.
In fact I prefer to have a physically dominat role in a relationship because it just seems natural for me.
This led to centuries of male agression and warfare, because the feminine characteristics of kindness, caring and tolerant compassion were undervalued simply because they were seen as feminine, therefore inferior to the masculine traits of power, conquest and dominance.
Now, with girls and women being free to discover and develop their own strength potential in every respect, feminine qualities are being balanced by the more positive of masculine values, namely physical and mental strength, courage, endurance and drive towards self-betterment.
As future wives and mothers, girls of this generation can freely attain levels of strength that were frowned upon as being "butch" and "unladylike" just one generation ago.
Already most schoolgirls of 10 to 14 years of age are as big as or bigger and stronger than boys of the same age.
This was also true in the past, but at a certain age girls were expected to become "the weaker sex" in order to attract boyfriends and boost male egos.
So even if a girl was way stronger than her boyfriend, she kept it well hidden.
Nowdays, however, there is a growing number of men who are powerfully attracted to stronger women, and more and more girls and women are realizing the freedom and even the erotic excitement of being "stronger than a man." One very important point in this new development is for women NOT to masculinize their physical strength by using it aggressively, to "kick butt" (unless it is necessary) but to use it protectively and sensitively, preserving the best of femininity, within the utmost achievements of physical strength.
Dominance by superior female strength should only be enjoyed by both partners in a relationship, by mutual consent.
Many men - myself include - secretly yearn for the 'feel' of a stronger woman.
To be beaten at armwrestling or lifted and carried by a strong lady is an exciting turn-on, but no-one wants to be bullied by someone stronger than they are.
The sad fact that stronger men still abuse their weaker spouses is not reason enough for stronger women to do likewise.